Monday, March 23, 2009

Forgive n Forget

Today something important and meaningful happened in our lecture class... an individual posted some crude comments about our lecturer in his blog, his use of crude language and foul comments really hurt our lecturer... She expressed her feelings before the class, it was depressing to see her like that but by the end of the that individual apologized and his mistake was forgived and forgotten. Still I don't think he should do that, even though proving a point and expressing your feelings in your blog is not wrong but his way of saying it was so harsh it was hurtful and unforgiving. Yes, our lecturer's english is not first class but she has a lot of info or rather "filling " of knowledge on the subject, she can relate boring facts with everyday life situations, that is what we should learn from her... but this bastard(forgive my use of the word) acted as though his use of the english language is the best in the world!!

It is our lecturer who is so kind and composed that she can forgive him for his comments, if it was me I don't think I can be that kind and forgiving. Still... ... if we think about it in more detail, it somehow proves that Sigmund Freud was right about his psychoanalytic theory of the 5 stages of development. Maybe he is unsatisfied during his Oral stage(0-2 years old)...
haha(laughing) it means that maybe he didn't get enough of sucking...or breast feeding...this behavior though, can result into many actions in gratifying his oral needs, like sucking candy,chewing gum, biting pencils... ... and making biting , sarcastic remarks!!

If we think of it this way, it is more easy to understand his behavior and its more easy to forgive him...Well, miss really thaught us and important lesson in forgiving and forgetting. I would remember this incident though, so that I would not offend anyone in the future... ^^

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Monday, March 23, 2009

Forgive n Forget

Posted by rebecca at 3:43 AM
Today something important and meaningful happened in our lecture class... an individual posted some crude comments about our lecturer in his blog, his use of crude language and foul comments really hurt our lecturer... She expressed her feelings before the class, it was depressing to see her like that but by the end of the that individual apologized and his mistake was forgived and forgotten. Still I don't think he should do that, even though proving a point and expressing your feelings in your blog is not wrong but his way of saying it was so harsh it was hurtful and unforgiving. Yes, our lecturer's english is not first class but she has a lot of info or rather "filling " of knowledge on the subject, she can relate boring facts with everyday life situations, that is what we should learn from her... but this bastard(forgive my use of the word) acted as though his use of the english language is the best in the world!!

It is our lecturer who is so kind and composed that she can forgive him for his comments, if it was me I don't think I can be that kind and forgiving. Still... ... if we think about it in more detail, it somehow proves that Sigmund Freud was right about his psychoanalytic theory of the 5 stages of development. Maybe he is unsatisfied during his Oral stage(0-2 years old)...
haha(laughing) it means that maybe he didn't get enough of sucking...or breast feeding...this behavior though, can result into many actions in gratifying his oral needs, like sucking candy,chewing gum, biting pencils... ... and making biting , sarcastic remarks!!

If we think of it this way, it is more easy to understand his behavior and its more easy to forgive him...Well, miss really thaught us and important lesson in forgiving and forgetting. I would remember this incident though, so that I would not offend anyone in the future... ^^

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